Sunday, November 06, 2005

Guy + Girl = Marriage?

Attended Jimmy's matrimony that Saturday, and went away feeling more dreamy than ever. =D ...just like Isa said, each time we attend a wedding, we go away feeling the yearn to get married too. Hahaha...


It was one of those church weddings, white and pretty...somehow it just seems to vibrate purity and eternity....and promises for the future...Awww...


Just the other day, my second sister told me my bro actually asked her how to go about applying for a flat...HMMMM...that means.....*grin* But of course, both my sis and I feel that my bro and his gf is not ready. Even though there are spontaneous people who get married within a week, we feel that my bro and gf just aren't ready as yet. Of course, not that they knew each other for a week only. They have known each other for a couple of months...less than 6 to be accurate. My bro isn't old or desperate to get married (he's just 2 years older than I am) so we don't really understand the rush too. Besides, he isn't ready AT ALL with regards to the key monetary factor. Well, I guess maybe he feels 1) She's the RIGHT one 2) He's ready to settle down. That probably explains the haste.


Somehow, my sis and I have lesser faith in my bro...in alot of issues. In addition to the stability of his financial status (and THAT is a big issue already), I feel they probably should work on work on stabilising their relationship, as well as get to know each other better. And this comes with time, which, they haven't exactly had as yet.


My friends and I met up and bitched about her older sister-in-law. In a nutshell, she - apart from having no manners, no respect for her in-laws, she sees herself as the precious one, where everyone has to pick up after her. Yes, even her mother-in-law. Can you even beat that? She's always right, she wants her way, and has zero tolerance for anyone else. And we would have thought someone like that probably would have difficulties finding a husband, but no...she married my friend's brother, who is basically a Mr Nice-Guy. Well yes, no one stands up to her in the family, she wins hands-down.


I was telling them about my bro's gf (perhaps wife-to-be in future). We've gone out for a meal before and we've had a certain level of interaction for sure. She's younger than me for one thing, so I guess she wouldn't bully me in future anyway. Heh...For another thing, my two sisters and I reasoned alot with my brother, so I guess chances are slim for whatever that happened to my friend, to happen to me. At least that's what I think now. Of course, I can never be too sure too.

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